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有人惹你生氣了?深呼一口氣,不如這么做!
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文章轉載自 21英語微商城 21世紀英文報
有人把你激怒了,該怎么應對?
千萬不要打回去……
這些智慧的表達方式可以幫到你
(難道這就是“高情商”?)
一起來學學吧!
Using the power of words
Our language is a powerful tool. But, instead of criticizing people, it pays to use our words wisely. These tips can help:
我們的語言是一個強大的工具。但是,與其用它批評或嘲諷別人,不如更聰明地使用我們的語言?纯聪旅娴慕ㄗh吧:
Practicing smooth speech and intelligent remarks (言辭) will ensure you won’t get too nervous under pressure.
練習可以用于正式場合的發言和更巧妙的表達方法可以讓你在壓力下不那么緊張。
For example, if someone got upset with you, what would you say back? These remarks might work: “I know you’re upset, but calm down and we’ll talk.” “You’re pushing all my buttons. I take offence at (對......生氣) some of your language.” “We’re both adults here. Let’s not act crazy toward each other.”
舉個例子:如果有人沖你發火,你會怎么回應他?這句話可能有用:“我知道你很生氣,但不如冷靜一下,我們談談怎么樣?”、“你讓我生氣了,我對你的一些表達不太滿意。”、“我們都是成年人了,不如冷靜一點處理問題。”
The point is that you want to speak up for yourself. But you don’t want to ignite an explosion (激起怒火). State your feelings in a mature way. Intelligent language steers (引導) us toward good outcomes.
重點是你想為自己說話,表達自己的想法。但你并不想激怒對方,那不如用更成熟的語句表達你的感受。智慧的語言表讓我們的生活更美好。